the world is messed up.

as a plus size person, people tell me one of two things:
lose weight
or
you're beautiful the way you are, embrace your body

it's hard to do both, but especially the second when all that the media ever shows us is a bunch of stick skinny girls wearing tight clothes and bikinis.

its hard to believe that you're beautiful when even celebrities who would say embrace your body blah blah are losing weight to fit it with everyone else. it's disappointing when stores that have some of the cutest clothes that all your friends shop at dont carry plus size clothes, and if they do it's only online.
for example, i went to forever21.com and went to the plus size section. i clicked the view all button and all 15 pages showed. then, i went to the normal part of the store and clicked dresses and 25 pages of ONLY dresses popped up.
why is it that skinny girls get 25 pages of just dresses and plus size girls get only 15 pages, that includes all the different categories.
it's just annoying, disappointing, and discouraging.
that's just life right? >.<